Lessons Learned from My Sickness Part 28: The Language of Silence
It is customary for people to make or create a noise when emphasizing something. New business or products are introduced by loud public announcements, accompanied with drum beats, full volume music, street parades, caravans, fireworks, etc.
It seems that people are convinced of the products’ effectivity by the loudness of its propaganda or advertisement. The louder the noise, the popular the business.
Silence is perceived as a weakness or a show of insignificance. But is it?
My sickness has introduced me to the world of silence – by force.
In other words, I was forced to be silent, otherwise, I will suffer a state of incessant coughing if I continue talking.
It took me quite a while to adjust to this condition.
You see, as a Pastor, my job was to speak, and not just speak, but to speak loudly. I was not used to just sit in a corner and be silent.
But my sickness made me discover the virtue of silence. I discovered that it’s also a means which I can still communicate with others.
I discovered that I can listen more while others are talking, and I can fully internalize what they felt. I discovered that I’m more sensitive to the feelings of others.
Not only that. I also discovered that I have plenty of time to think more deeply, analyze things more broadly, and in so doing, learn quite a lot of things more frequently.
I have more time for personal devotions and to read the scriptures. I have plenty of opportunities to pray for many people in my prayers of intercessions. I have more time to reflect and write my reflections.
What I missed doing when my faculty of speech was still intact I learned to value and maximize in my world of silence.
Posted on FB: 20 March 2015 – 4:39 PM