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Sensitivity – Important Caring Ingredient

Lessons Learned from My Sickness – Part 19: Sensitivity

peace and quiet place
Peace and quiet bring healing to the body and mind.

This word, according to the dictionary means – the awareness and understanding of needs or feelings of others; the ability to respond to perceived inadequacies; the strength of physical and emotional reaction.

The opposite of sensitivity is apathy, numbness, unresponsive, unfeeling and hard-heartedness.

To be called “sensitive” is to be able to have a positive description.

Many favorable things happened in the lives of people because actions made by sensitive persons had helped solve their problems or eased the burdens they were carrying.

I owe a great debt of gratitude to many people whose sensitivity eased my pain, answered my needs and brought me joy.

The day after my release from hospital confinement was the Jaro fiesta. For those unfamiliar with the event, it means that traffic is closed, streets are filled with all kinds of vendors, noise and dirt pollution proliferates.

For us living in the central part of the district (near the Jaro plaza), it means being vulnerable to 24-hour noise, smoke and dirt pollution, and difficulty of transportation.

Being newly released from the hospital I still suffer from shortness of breathe and have difficulty in my physical movements.

The question which occupied my mind in anticipation of the fiesta was, “How can my body rest in the middle of such discomfort?”

Without my knowing it, sensitive members of Jaro Evangelical Church had already prepared for such an eventuality.

They had already made a reservation in a nearby beach resort to have a cottage to accommodate me and my family for two days so that we can avoid the inconveniences of the fiesta celebration!

The sensitivity of these concerned church members enabled them to plan in advance what to do during my time of need.

How wonderful to have Christian brothers and sisters like them!

I praise God for giving us sensitive members in the family of faith!

Posted on FB: 11 March 2015 – 2:56 PM

Jaro Evangelical Church

About the Author

Rev. Ronny Luces is the Minister for Administration and Community Service of Jaro Evangelical Church (JEC), Iloilo City, Philipines. He and wife, Martha have been with JEC’s ministry since 1994.

Pastor Ronny graduated from Central Philippine University College of Theology in 1985 and was pastor of several Baptist churches.

In January 2015, after tests and two long hospital confinements, Pastor Ronny got the word he has lung cancer. He is undergoing chemotherapy.

Praying for healing and going through all the medical processes, Pastor Ronny writes his reflections “Lessons Learned from My Sickness”.

May Pastor Ronny’s series of reflections and meditations strengthen your hope and faith as you go through your own life’s battles. Please pray for Pastor Ronny’s healing.

PHOTO CREDIT: Boracay by Karl Hipolito; used with permission.

Posted in Faith, Hope, Inspirational, Love

Our Journey of Faith, Hope and Love, and Tea’s Spiritual Growth


“The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make his face shine on you and be gracious to you; the Lord turn his face toward you and give you peace.” (Numbers 6:24-26)

Father and son
Randy and son, Tea

By Randy Anthony

Our 10-year old son Theodore (Tea) was very much a part of our challenging journey since July 2012. His Manang Kima was away for her internship from May to August 2012 so he was with us when his mom’s condition was detected by mammogram and he was also with us when it was confirmed by our family physician.

He was with his mom during the lab tests and was with her when the staples were removed from the surgery area. He did not ask any questions when we made major changes on how we pray, he just held our hands and joined us in asking for God’s divine healing love.

From the start, we just told him that mom’s breast is “bumpy,” she will undergo surgery to remove the bumps and she will receive medication that might cause her hair to fall. With the extent of his participation however, we were thinking that deep inside he knows that his mom’s condition is more than just a “bumpy condition.”

Last July 27, 2012 (Thursday), Tea’s school held the Terry Fox National School Run Day.  

Terry Fox (July 28, 1958-June 28, 1981) was a Canadian humanitarian, athlete, and cancer research activist. In 1980, with one leg having been amputated, he embarked on a cross-Canada run to raise money and awareness for cancer research. Although the spread of his cancer eventually forced him to end his quest after 143 days and 5,373 kilometres (3,339 mi), and ultimately cost him his life, his efforts resulted in a lasting, worldwide legacy (From Terry Fox – Wikipedia).

During the run, the students were given a sticker with a blank space for them to write the reason they are running. When I came home that Thursday afternoon, I saw Tea’s sticker with a note, “I run for my family.”

I immediately anticipated that there will be more questions from him about cancer because for sure, they were given some lectures about it in school. That’s one of my fears because at that time, I still don’t know how to explain it to him. Fortunately, he did not ask me anything about it.

mother and daughter
Nina and daughter, Kima

We were busy with our usual chores the next Friday morning. I had my breakfast ahead of them because I need to prepare early to bring Tea to school and to go with Nina to the Tom Baker Cancer Centre (TBCC) for her bone scan. Nina and Tea had their breakfast together and I don’t know what they talked about.

We were already in TBCC when Nina told me that Tea asked her if we have cancer in the family. Nina asked him “why?”

Tea told her that while participating in the Terry Fox Run, he was thinking that he should run to fight cancer for his family. He didn’t understand why but he just kept thinking about it.

Nina told him straight, “yes, we have cancer in the family and I have breast cancer.” Tea simply answered, “Now I know why I had that kind of feeling.”

Nina might have handled her condition well that at Tea’s tender age, he was able to accept it well too. God did not only strengthen Nina, He also strengthened Tea and ready his heart and mind to discover the truth by himself in His own appointed time.

Tea surprised me again two weeks ago.

Randy Anthony

Before we went to sleep, he asked me if he can talk to me for a while. I said, “Yes, what it is all about?” He replied, “Is mom ok now?”

I immediately responded that his mom is okay and he should not worry about her.

He further asked, “But what about the news on cancer medicine?” (He was referring to the news on TV that chemotherapy medicine in Ontario was diluted and about 1500 patients might be affected).

I explained to him that we are in Alberta and his mom is already done with her chemotherapy. She was administered a different kind of chemotherapy medicine and the remaining medication until October will prevent the “bumps” from growing again.

Tea however had another follow-up question, “But are you sure that mom is well now?”

I don’t know what to say so I just told him, “You know, all we need to do is to eat healthy food and help your mom all the time so that she will not get sick.”

Randy and wife, Nina
Randy and wife, Nina

He answered, “So she got sick because of unhealthy food and too much work?”

Again, I don’t know what to say so I simply replied, “Maybe.”

Our conversation ended but deep inside I felt that I did not gave him the right answer. I went to one corner of our room where I prayed and asked God for guidance.

After a moment of silence, I went back to Tea and told him, “Tea, all we need to do is to pray all the time. We don’t need to worry about anything because God will take care of your mom, she will be well.”

Tea did not answer me, he was just smiling and I noticed that he was already praying. I felt a lump on my throat, I wept and I smiled.

We know that while family members and friends are praying for Nina’s healing, they are also praying for the family. I kept on saying we can feel it…yes, we can feel it.

Prayers did not only help Nina overcome the impact of two surgeries, chemotherapy, series of tests, and a lot of pain.


Prayers also strengthened our family, blessed our family, and brought spiritual enlightenment to our family especially to our youngest child Theodore.

Yes, God answered our prayers! We will be witnesses of His healing power and we will always bring glory, honor and praise to Him. Amen! 

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